What is Spiritual Direction?

“Spiritual direction” and a “spiritual director” are actually fairly misleading terms, for the only true direction given to one’s spiritual life is from the Holy Spirit.  A “spiritual director” is one who simply accompanies another person on his or her spiritual journey (“spiritual friend” might be a better term than “director”).  In this accompanying, a spiritual director may:

  • help one listen for God’s voice
  • offer a helpful different perspective
  • offer gentle accountability for one’s practice of various spiritual disciplines

 

Spiritual Directors International (www.sdi.org) offers the following thoughts and quotes on the definition of spiritual direction:

Spiritual direction explores a deeper relationship with the spiritual aspect of being human.  Simply put, spiritual direction is helping people tell their sacred stories everyday… Describing spiritual direction requires putting words to a process of fostering a transcendent experience that lies beyond all names and yet the experience longs to be articulated and made concrete in everyday living.  It is easier to describe what spiritual direction does than what it is.  Spiritual direction helps us learn how to live in peace, with compassion, promoting justice, as humble servants of that which lies beyond all names.  (Liz Budd Ellmann, M.Div., Executive Director, SDI)

 

Spiritual direction is the contemplative practice of helping another person or group to awaken to the mystery called God in all of life, and to respond to that discovery in a growing relationship of freedom and commitment. (James Keegan, SJ, on behalf of the 2005 Coordinating Council of SDI)

Spiritual direction is, in reality, nothing more than a way of leading us to see and obey the real Director—the Holy Spirit hidden in the depths of our soul.  (Thomas Merton)

 

Direction is not about telling people what to believe or how to act but working with the  Spirit to discover, surface, name for themselves, and engage in what God is doing.  (Rev. Kenton Smith, Presbyterian, USA)

 

Spiritual guidance is being present in the moment, seeing and honoring the sacred mystery of the soul of another.  It is witnessing this mystery and reflecting it back in word, prayer, thought, presence, and action.  Spiritual guidance is modeling a deep relationship with the Divine and standing in faith and love with the other as that relationship unfolds for him or her.  (Carol A. Fournier, MS, NCC, Interfaith Spiritual Director/Guide, Silver Dove Institute, Williston, Vermont)

 

 

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